what happened to this? where are all the Men that guided us? of course i know, some cunt somewhere decided that this was abuse, that the kitchen is a jail, that obeying a Man was oppression. and the Men are pushed into Their silent corners where voicing Their opinions are looked down on. They are shamed for believing in the actions of this picture. so they trade an act of “oppression” for another. feminism is oppression.
I read an interview of Joan Collins and she said she loved the scenes where she was spanked by the leading man. She especially loved when they actually spanked her and left marks. Shes not alone. Lucille Ball was routinely spanked on tv by her husband Desi Arnez she she too said she loved seeing marks afterwards and knew she was loved by her husband when he punished her. I heard my dad spanking my mom a couple times and I still respect my mother.
When I was younger, reading this, I would’ve thought these opinions were outrageous. “Why would you want a man to abuse you?” I’d think. Oddly I don’t feel this way anymore and I don’t see it as abuse necessarily. Dominance, maybe.
Is there a reason women like this? Yes. I don’t think it’s a bad reason, or these women are brainwashed, I feel like there’s something natural about this kind of order, but I would have to really look into it. It’s interesting though, I won’t lie. But I feel like this is partly the issue we’re having in society now. I agree, the slaps are a little overkill, but in terms of a women knowing her place and gender roles: I agree with it. Seemed natural that way. Now look where we are. Both men as women are unhappy and confused because we stray from our natural order. Some people don’t want to see it that way, but I’m confident that that’s a huge part of the issue.
I noticed I started feeling like this as I got older and actually settled into a serious relationship. It’s crazy. I began wanting things that didn’t seem normal to desire from another person. When you desire dominance over yourself, others see it as a weakness within yourself, or an abnormal mentality. It’s not something I can explain as of yet.
I’m going to have to research this a little more.
Sounds like you are on the right path young lady. Women are inherently submissive. It takes an act of submission to get fucked. You have to submit to his sperm inside you to impregnate you. I never saw my father slap my mother but I heard her getting spanked a few times. And k noticed that it was right after she did certain things like yell at him. I am naturally Dominant because of my parents (yes my mother too) and only seek out submissive women.
I wouldn’t consider myself as brainwashed by feminism, but you guys are having some serious rose goggles moments here, underpinned by some strange views on natural order and sex.
The character in this movie is an ex-pimp who treats women as disposable objects, and this scene is another way for the director to underscore this. There is no need to romanticize this too much - and it isn’t guidance.
omfg so fucking done with this
ignoring the picture and talking about all the bullshit commentary
no there’s nothing wrong with submission and dominance when it’s fucking consensual. agreed on and talked about.
but it has absolutely nothing nothing NOTHING to do with fucking gender
you’re basically saying the only right way to be is a sub woman with a dom man.
what about, you know, everyone else in the world who doesn’t identify as straight or cis or even as the power level YOU are saying they should be? you’re saying that they’re just messing things up for everyone by doing what they want?
You’re also saying that one type of relationship is the best way for everyone.
everyone in the whole world.
how could that even make sense to anyone??
if you wanna live your life like this then I’m happy you found out what works nice for you, but don’t tell anyone it’s what they need to do or that it’ll make the world a better place.
things were just as fucked up back then as they are now.
yeah the incompetence of some new people in the BDSM community scares me…
You know why women often say “nothing’s wrong” when something is definitely bothering them
It’s because men have been belittling, minimizing and mocking our emotions forever
And we are socialized to be as passive and undemanding and selfless as possible, and not to run any risk of bothering or angering a man lest he abandon or hurt us
It’s not passive aggression, it is fear
oh my god
and then its so highly regarded when men show emotions
(Source: straussfrau, via madgastronomer)
If you ever feel bad just remeber there is a gif of me floating around tumblr of when I was 8 and I sat on the escalator and knocked down a table of jewelry at macys
"Whenever I hear the "Women are paid $.78 for the man’s $1" I flip it around.
Men make $1.22 for every woman’s $1.
It interests me that even the most common simple measure of gender inequality is firmly based on male-as-normative …"
bisexual activist and queer theory blogger Patrick RichardsFink (via fliponymous)
this is an interesting point, although mathematically inaccurate: assuming the women:men, 0.78:1 ratio is correct, men make $1.28 for every woman’s $1
White people are still the ~standard so that’s not so revolutionary.
A white man makes $1.34 for every dollar that a black man makes
A white man makes $1.52 for every dollar that a latino man makes
A white man makes $1.24 for every dollar that a white woman makes
A white man makes $1.44 for every dollar that a black woman makes
A white man makes $1.67 for every dollar that a latina woman makes
That’s some bullshit right there.
If you take away anything from this website, please let it be what I bolded ^
do asians just not have jobs in america